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Friendship VS Relationships: Platonic Love

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When do people feel betrayed?

When do you weigh the factors of friendships and relationships? What's more important?

I have three friends: Luisa, Isa, and Karson. We're all studying music, Luisa and?Isa are singers and Karson...well let's just say that he's a one man band.?Isa has had a huge crush on Karson ever since he transfered from a different University. Karson's a great guy, extremely nice?and?polite, but most of all a wonderful gentlemen.

Isa?would often talk to me about him. She would tell me how he would sometimes give her a ride to her classes?and how he would call her to ask her if she needed anything. I told her to tell Karson how she feels about him, but she was always too afraid of what the answer might be. I always say, "It's better to know what could be than wondering what could've been." Regardless of what I would tell her, she just wouldn't listen. She was too afraid, that was the problem.

Months passed, she said nothing and just acted "normal" around Karson. Little did she know that he had his eyes set on Luisa for a while. During winter break, Karson and Luisa did a lot of bonding together. They got to know each other a little more and in the end they both found out they liked each other. A week before the semester began, I found out that Luisa and Karson are a couple. I felt happy for Luisa regardless of how?Isa might've?felt. Luisa didn't know?Isa liked Karson, otherwise I'm sure she wouldn't have agreed to be a couple with him.?Isa told me not to tell anybody about her feelings for Karson, so my hands were tied.

Classes begin, we all meet up at choir as usual. But then when class was over, Karson and Luisa were holding hands and?Isa saw it. I saw what had just happened and didn't know what to do, Luisa and Karson were completely oblivious to what was going on. However,?Isa didn't react either, her facial expression didn't say anything about how she was feeling at that moment. She just picked up her stuff and left the classroom.

Two days after this, Luisa talks to me and tells me about how?Isa is acting around her. Luisa had just found out that?Isa had a crush on Karson, she didn't know anything about that. She told me how?Isa wouldn't even say hi to her anymore and would just ignore her coldly. Luisa knew about?Isa's crush?through Karson because he had told her that?Isa had confessed her feelings to him the day after he had confessed his feelings to Luisa. He politely turned?Isa down saying that he was already in a relationship but he wanted to be friends with her. I don't know what?Isa's reaction was to Karson's response, he didn't say anything about what had happened then.

Now,?Isa has completely changed with everyone. She doesn't talk to anybody and she just sits by herself in corners avoiding everyone that wanted to talk to her. She wouldn't even talk to me! What did I do to deserved the silent treatment? I was caught in the middle of everything! I gave her advice but she didn't take it. What I hate is that she's victimizing herself like if it really is everyone's fault. Luisa tries to talk to her, but no avail. I try to talk to her and she won't budge.

Luisa and Isa were best friends before they met me and before Karson came along. They considered themselves sisters! Now everything's changed. I don't know what to do and neither does Luisa because?Isa thinks that everybody's against her, which is not true! She's acting like Luisa stole Karson from her when he wasn't even hers to begin with. I still appreciate her friendship and I don't want to lose that.

If you were in my position what would you do? Can a long intimate friendship go down the drain just like that, because of this situation?

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